We decide that things are going to be different. We make a plan. We have a goal. We are ready. Then things happen. For example, I decided I would eat healthy for 2012. I have meals planned. I shared my goal with my family. Everything was fine. Then, I found some Christmas presents that had not been put away. Someone gave us pecan brittle. I’m the only one who likes pecans. You can probably guess the rest of the story.
In our lives there are often surprises, unexpected events, and bags of Red Rocker Pecan Brittle that can derail us from our goals. We may be tempted to give up the goal entirely. We may be tempted to say that the goal was just too difficult for us. We may go looking for more hidden candy. The truth is that none of us is perfect. We all make mistakes, give in to the temptation, and have a hard time changing our way of being. We do things that we know are not good for us. We are sometimes thoughtless. We are selfish. We all do the wrong thing occasionally. The question is not, are we going to mess up? The question is what are we going to do when our life interferes with our goals? How are we going to handle the bag of pecan brittle, the errant behavior, and all of our mistakes?
After we accept the error or mistake, then we need to keep going. Don’t allow one momentary lapse to cause you to abort your goal. Each day we re given a new opportunity to be transformed. We are able to keep moving forward. There will be things, surprises, and Red Rocker Pecan Brittle that diverts us from our goal. Our living interrupts the best intentions, plans, and goals. We have to decide how we are going to handle life in the midst of this living. What are you going to do after you make the mistake? Forgive the mistake. Seek forgiveness if your behavior has hurt others. Continue to seek your goal. God does not expect perfection from you. You will make mistakes. You will be diverted. We all must learn to live in the midst of life.